Monday, December 4, 2017

UNUSUAL TURN ON


I was making a usual trip to the health food store when something strange happened.

The store is run by an impeccably dressed, older black man who is one of the few of his color in this tiny Arkansas town. Sadly we aren't known for our diversity.  I didn't know that till I was settled.

Perusal, he was being very helpful and after I checked out several brands, I got what I wanted.

However, when I left the store, an interesting aroma was clinging to me. At first I thought it must have been an aftershave he was wearing--perhaps it was on his hands, thus on my purchase.   

Nope, my purchase didn't smell, I did. I found the aroma intoxicating  and frankly I was a bit turned on. Mercy what was happening to me?

I remembered that there was a diffuser puffing away by the cash register. Perhaps that was it? I should have gone right back but I went home instead.

The whole day I joyfully inhaled the aroma drifting about me. I was smiling rather goofily a lot and I had to know what it was.

The next day I went back to the store.  His wife was there and he was gone so she called him to ask what he had put in the diffuser the day before. He couldn't remember.

They had about 15 bottles of things it could have been but after sniffing about 8 of them, my nose got confused and I would have been hard put to recognize the odor of skunk.

It seemed however that most of them were combined with something called Patchouli. I vaguely remembered this from the 70's so I went home and Googled it. I found it can be an aphrodisiac. That would explain a few things about the direction my mind had been taking. You can view its amazing benefits here.

So I bought a bottle of the essential Patchouli oil but was not impressed with the  raw scent.  I then mixed it with some scented wax cubes I had and put it in my wax warmer. Wow, that was almost it and close enough for me.  It is not so much an actual turn on now but I do like the happy, relaxed mood it provokes.
Sniff, sniff--ahhh.

I love the smell of my house. Can't figure out how to get it on my body yet though I am not sure I should.  I'll think about that for a while yet.

Have you ever fallen in love with a fragrance you just had to have?

45 comments :

  1. How interesting! In my google search I found out that Estee Lauder's Sensuous Noir lists patchouli as one of their ingredients. I've tried essential oils before but never found one I liked. I may have to give this a try. The claim from the sellers are really glowing but a first hand impression from a fellow blogger is the best.

    I'm not big on wearing perfumes but I do like Joy and the main ingredients are jasmine and roses. Caon't afford it anymore, though.

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    1. Jean R,
      You have pretty expensive taste. Joy use to be the most expensive perfume--not sure if it still is but I know it is really pricey.
      Patchouli is an ingredient in many perfumes.

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  2. Your description made me immediately remember the smell of patchouli. It is a very distinctive odor, and I'm not sure my old sniffer would get turned on at my advanced age, but I'm sure glad it worked for you! I love the smell of roses but don't wear any scent on purpose any more. :-)

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    1. Djan,
      Ha ha, my sniffer is older than yours and it got me:)) I don't wear perfume like I use to mainly because I have a friend who is quite allergic.

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  3. Coffee and bacon in the morning

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    1. Joe,
      Ha ha, if only we could bottle that delightful smell, women could rule the world.

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  4. Oh wow, I haven't thought of patchouli oil in years. It seemed omnipresent in the late '60s. You make me want to take a lovely sniff of it again. Perhaps I'll be transported back to a different time of peace and love!

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    1. robin,
      Give it a try. It made me feel quite peaceful all day. Powerful stuff.

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  5. What a delightful experience! And you went back, that's so cool. I do remember the name of this scent, but not how it actually smells.

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  6. Inger,
    It was quite compelling for me anyway. It has an unusual scent. I know it had been almost 40 years since I had caught a whiff.

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  7. I have an allergy to some scents, so I try to stay away from them. Last spring at the beach in CA, we went out to eat. There was a couple seated next to us, and the woman reeked of Jean Nate which everyone wore in the 60’s. I wondered if I’d get short of breath, but I made it (uncomfortably) through the meal. I think when people get accustomed to a scent, they can’t smell it anymore (at least I hope that was the woman’s excuse).

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    1. Barb,
      I hated Jean Nate and sadly it was once really popular. I rarely wear perfume any more for the reason you mentioned. After a while, you can't smell it anyway and now days, it is often offensive, not glamorous.

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  8. I have a scent sensitivity so tend to avoid them as much as possible. Walking through the cleaning product aisle in any supermarket is done at a quick pace. Yet I love the scent of Mr. Clean (original). Can't say it has ever turned me on though ;)

    Eileen

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    1. Eileen,
      Ha ha, that is funny about Mr. Clean not turning you on. I do know several people with your aversion to scents.

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    1. Stephen,
      Ha ha, yes to both you and Joe. If we could bottle that scent, we would dab it behind our ears just for you guys.

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  10. Yankee Candle use to sell Patchouli scented candles and my daughter loved them. It's an acquired scent, I think, as I found it smelled more like men's cologne. Maybe that's why it's an aphrodisiac.

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    1. Snickelfritz,
      That makes sense for I was thinking it was the man's cologne that was attracting me.

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  11. i associate that fragrance with hippie days -- and I do find it quie pleasant.

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    1. Olga,
      Me too. I was in the early 70's I discovered it.

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  12. I have a chocolate candle that I like the smell of. Mostly I just like naturally occurring fragrances like flowers and lemons and, of course, chocolate and coffee.

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    1. Linda R.
      Food scents really can get our saliva glands going and bring happy thoughts.

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  13. I don't know what kind of Patchouli people are wearing out here, maybe the raw oil or something, but for me it's an almost immediate migraine and I have to breathe through a hanky held against my nose the whole time I am on the bus with that scent.

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    1. River,
      I feel your pain. The smell of Vanilla which is the base of a lot of perfumes does the same thing to me. I get physically ill.

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  14. My college dorm smelled like patchouli all the time. I think it was supposed to disguise weed. LOL

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    1. Grannie Annie,
      Ha ha, I do remember patchouli incense doing that job in the 70's.

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  15. Yes, I loved "le deu" by Givenchy , but they don't sell it any more.

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    1. Mage,
      Don't ya hate that? Several of my favorites are now extinct. You can still get them but they are so old I'm sure the smell like paint thinner by now.

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  16. I love the scent of bacon frying. lol! I haven't heard of patchouli. Some scents are just too strong for me and give me a headache if I'm around them too long.

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    1. Cheryl,
      I still think a fortune could be made if we could bottle that scent.

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  17. Oh Goodness that takes me back. Haven't smelt Patchouli in a long time. Think I'll have to take the nose out for a little smell and see if it still brings joy.

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    1. Barbara,
      Ha ha, give it a test drive. You might be surprised that it still packs a punch.

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  18. This sounds like a real wonder oil! I used to enjoy some aromas, but there are times when some will create serious sinus problems for me. Since I don’t know when or what may do it, I just started avoiding all scented products, perfumes, incense, candles etc. Seemed to become a problem when we moved from humid Ohio to dry southwest of Ariz. and so Cal. Recall standing in line at Universal Studios and some woman in front of me was wearing some perfume that was just overwhelming and really set off my head — was miserable.

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    1. joared,
      I know. I have become aware of people's sensitivity so I rarely wear any scents in public. Usually just for my own benefit.

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  19. I love scents like that... I love to visit candle shops and smell all of those scents..... I'm still a candle person --but seldom light them these days --except at Christmastime.... I love the smell of fresh evergreen --and since I now have a 'fake' tree, I use an evergreen candle to give the house some smell..... (NOT the same though!!!! ha)... I also love to make Hot Cider at Christmas since it makes the house smell so good.... There are so many scents I love --and luckily, I don't have an allergy to them.

    Hugs,
    Betsy

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    1. Betsy,
      Even better, George doesn't have any allergies to them. Baking bread to me really makes a house smell like a home. Realtors recommend baking bread before showing your house.

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  20. Sigh... Sadly, I’ve lost most of my sense of smell so it wouldn’t work for me. On the other hand, I can’t smell my grandson’s poopie diaper so it has its benefits.

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  21. Dear Patti, I loved this story. I can just see you sniff, sniff, sniffing yourself and your groceries, and your home while waiting to return to the store to solve the mystery.

    And I can see you now, almost floating through the room of your home--in graceful contentment.

    I have smelled something something that I wanted to wear--and that's "Blue Grass Body Powder," which was sold in certain upscale stores when I was a teen-ager and in college. It was expensive and I couldn't afford to buy more than one talcum box of it a year, so I used it sparingly--on those days when I wanted to offer a special "Dee" to the world! thanks for bringing back that memory. Peace.

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    1. Dee,
      I think it is still available--even at Walmart. Maybe a Christmas gift to yourself:)) Go ahead, splurge.

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  22. Sorry I've missed so many of your good posts. As my time marches on, there are so many different things that I want to yet experience and I can't seem to get them all into my life. LOL

    I love a variety of scents and I also love to have a diffuser or incense putting fragrances into my house. I remember a kind-of-new-age book store that always had different smells going that permeated into the books. It was always delightful to read their books because the fragrance seemed to last forever.

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    1. Belva,
      Bet one of those was Patchouli. Ohh, how nice to read great smelling books. The ones I get from the library usually have a not so great smell.

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  23. Mrs. T wants to know where we can order some...:)

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    1. TB
      Ha, ha, ha. Thanks for my morning chuckle. Try Amazon, that is where I go:))

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  24. Just so you'll someone already has found a way to bottle and sell the scent of back both as perfume and oils.

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