Monday, June 22, 2020

BACK AGAIN KINDA


Just to let you know I am all healed up now. My rib only hurts if I lay on it a long time and my tooth is gone though I had to wait 3 days enjoying the toothache before getting it pulled (weekend for part of it).  Now the socket has healed and I am no longer eating pudding cups and jello.  Life is good again. 

I went to town Thursday for a doctor's appointment and when I got to the stop light I was brought up short. There at the intersection were two children on bikes, maybe 8 and 10 years old.  What brought me up short was that I realized it was the first children I had seen in months. What an unusual but welcome sight. Wow, how do you grandparents do it being separated so long? Here I was excited seeing kids I didn't even know. 

I tend to check my stats daily and if I see a hit on a post from long ago I will go to it just to see what I wrote since I have usually forgotten.  I also enjoy reading the comments from years ago.  I am delighted how many people have stayed with me for so many years but I also feel sad when I read comments from people that no longer stop by.  I only hope they quit blogging by choice and not illness.  

Sometimes I think I must have phoned in that post and other times I think that is cute enough to repeat. This is one of the repeatables. 

Reworked from Dec. 2009

In a recent post I mentioned that I had briefly worked part time for a car dealership. One of the salesmen I worked with was Bucky. He was a good looking, pretty full of himself fellow.

One day, I saw Bucky take a very tall, muscular young man with a military buzz cut to the back lot to look at the many cars in stock. When they came back, Bucky looked strained and quite wild eyed as he took the man to his office. He left him there and stopped by my desk on the way to get some coffee for his customer.

The normally cocky salesman looked quite ruffled. Bucky quietly told me they had been walking down the stairs to the lot when the customer turned to him and asked,"Do you think my being a queer Marine will affect my credit application?"

Bucky was rattled and couldn't understand why the fellow thought it necessary to even bring it up. Knowing Bucky's ego, he probably thought the guy was about to hit on him. I asked how he had answered and he said he mumbled something about how it shouldn't matter. Remember this was way before "don't ask don't tell."   


Just then the Marine came out of Bucky's office and asked if he could have cream with his coffee. Bucky said he would get it and left me with the young man so we started talking.  

He said he was visiting his parents while on leave but that he was stationed at Camp Lejune, NC.  I told him that I had once been engaged to a Marine lieutenant stationed at Camp Lejune and he asked, "Oh, was he a "career" Marine also?" It was unladylike but I spit coffee all over my desk.  Had I known the young man better I would have told him about the mix up and we could have worked Bucky over.  But those were different times.    

I know I should have gotten Bucky aside to tell him that his "queer" Marine was really a "career" Marine but you know, Bucky was such an arrogant little dude that he deserved to squirm. I told him later, long after the marine had left and for a long time he no longer trusted me, but then, that made us even for after all, he was a car salesman.

Ever have an embarrassing misunderstanding over what you thought you heard?

51 comments :

  1. Oh my...I'm laughing so hard right now, I can't think of anything.

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    1. Anni,
      So glad you found Bucky's dilemma as funny as I did.

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  2. My question -- why did the marine think his career would have any effect on his credit? Unless if he defaulted on car payments, the vehicle could be in an unknown port to re-possess. Him-m-m. I've met guys (and gals) who thought everyone was hitting on them but the two words do sound alike. Ha!

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    1. Florence,
      I think you hit on the possible reason for the concern. Military men do move a lot.

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  3. I am so happy to hear you are feeling better. Although a life of ice cream and jello would do me a world of good. :-)
    I love this story of arrogant Bucky. Serves him right.

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    1. Margaret,
      All I wanted to do was chew and not just let the food slide down.
      Bucky did have it coming.

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    1. Jean,
      So glad you enjoyed. I enjoyed the revisit.

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  5. That is funny!
    I know what you mean about bloggers that have dropped off the scene. I come across a name every once in a while and wonder what happened to that person. Even though we seldom meet our blogger buddies, there is a connection.

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    1. Olga,
      Glad you enjoyed his discomfort.
      I know, I tend to get a bit attached and wonder when they just quit blogging.

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  6. I laughed at the story. I didn't follow you back then in 2009, but these days I really miss you when you're not around! Glad you're feeling so much better, friend. :-)

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    1. Djan,
      Thank you so much and glad you enjoyed. Sometimes it is good to feel a bit off to appreciate normal health.

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  7. Patti, so glad you're on your way back to good health, I've missed your posts (but enjoy reading your kind, honest comments on others blogs, mine included). Hmm, I think I need to go exploring your archives sometime--if you have more stuff like Bucky & the career Marine, there's probably lots to enjoy :) BTW--that was too funny!

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    1. Doug,
      Thank you and explore all you want. I sometimes think I used up all my good stuff early on.

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  8. Really glad to see you posting here again and sharing this old gem of a story. It's so funny and delightful. Lately with all of our sheltering in place here we've been re-reading some of our old posts too. Wow, we used to post everyday and write up a storm! Ah the good old days. Take care there, Patti!

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    1. robin.
      Reading the oldies can be fun and how did we do that every day? You have been with me from the beginning, Thank you--I found you and roger at Pure Florida years ago. Ray seems to have quit posting.

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  9. so glad you are feeling better! I cry, occasionally, at the thought of not having seen grandkids since last year. We will be missing middle grandson's birthday this weekend. First of his I've ever missed. :(

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    1. Silver,
      I can only imagine how hard the separation from grandchildren must be. I was amazed how much I missed just seeing children playing.

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  10. That was funny. Bucky should get hearing aids.

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    1. gigi,
      Hadn't thought of that and you are probably right. That is better than just not paying attention.

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    2. gigi,
      For some reason I just realized none of my comments on your blog are showing up. I tried again today but I don't think it went through.
      Sorry, I am trying.

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    3. I wondered what happened to you. Glad that you are still reading my stuff, at least. Haha

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    4. gigi,
      Yes I am still reading. Don't know what has happened. I will try experimenting with my comments on your blog to see if it can be corrected. Weird.

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  11. SO SO SO glad you are feeling better. I only blog once a week (or less) these days, but love writing my blogs. What I never seem to have is enough time to visit others' blogs much now... Where does the time go????? I do appreciate those who have stuck with me even when I don't visit much....

    What a funny, funny story....

    Take care and stay WELL.
    Hugs,
    Betsy

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    1. Betsy,
      Me too on weekly. How did we do it every day? You and I have been hanging over the blogging fence for a long time.
      Glad you enjoyed the story.

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  12. All the very best for getting rid of the aches and pains! There is something about the aging process that does leave us with an increasing collection of battle damage! I think back to our dear Ginger cat that spent a few years with us some time ago now, I'm sure that his ears must have whistled if he was out on a windy day, because they were so torn and scarred by frequent territorial battles!
    This blogging thing is strange. I kept it up for a few years, but got out of the way of it (health problems mostly), but I'm creaking my way back into it again now. I guess I am at the stage of hoping to pass on any of my potting knowledge to the occasional person that might be interested, and if no one else reads it, and looking back at it I find it a very handy way to remember things when my memory fails me!

    Hugs and best wishes to you all the way from New Zealand.
    Peter xx

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    1. Peter,
      Delighted to see you here. You have been missed. I took some comfort knowing that NZ had done such a great job with this Covid mess. Hoped you and Laura were safe.
      Me too on using my blog as a memory jogger. They are great for that.

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  13. A few from long ago. Glad you are feeling better. Sorry about the loss of the tooth.

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    1. Mage,
      I am just happy it no longer hurts. Glad to see it go.

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  14. Glad you're feeling better. The children in our town seem to be hidden away as well. Miss my grands.

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    1. Celia,
      I am sure you do. I just didn't realize that all the children seemed to be missing for a while. Hope you get to visit yours soon.

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  15. So funny. Glad you're among the living again. And yes,not seeing our grandchildren was the worst, but we've gotten together with them all recently so all is good. Sad thing is we won't get to see our senior graduate as only parents or close guardians are allowed at the graduation. I misunderstand so many things anymore it's a laugh every day.

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    1. Snickelfritz,
      So glad you enjoyed. That is so sad about the graduates of 2020. It will be a memorable but sad year for them and their family.

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  16. Very funny!

    Reminds me a a story a neighbor told me. Their next door neighbors were black. They had a three year old daughter who was outside screaming Neeger, neeger. Their neighbors were outraged until it was explained that the little girl's sneaker had cone off.

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    1. joeh,
      That was funny but yikes, it could have caused some hard feelings. Glad the sneaker was explained:))

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  17. That was a great story! My memory is so bad these days, I can't think of any right off hand but there have been a few in the distant past. So glad you are feeling better. I broke a tooth off at the gum line a couple of months ago so I need to see a dentist also. No pain so I'm wondering if it's one I have had a root canal done on many years ago. 💖

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    1. Susan,
      I was grimacing in pain when you told of the broken tooth but think you might be right that it no longer had nerves in it. Phew.

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  18. Glad to hear you are well again. I need to visit my dentist soonish too, but I'm not in pain so I'll put it off as long as I can.
    Misunderstandings? Too many to mention (*~*)

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    1. River,
      I understand. That tooth of mine we knew was terminal and chose to ride it as long as possible. Just hope yours doesn't pick a week end like mine did to get angry.

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  19. It's so good to have you back and doing what you do so well ... not just blogging but taking us along on your life's journey. Since moving to North Carolina (over 40 years ago) I've had a slew of times when the southern dialect kept me in the dark ... for instance I had no idea that "she is really ill" meant how angry she was, etc.

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  20. Ginnie,
    Ooh, I missed that one. I would have misinterpreted that also and said I hope she gets better soon:))

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  21. Hi Patti ? Like you I enjoy kids playing outdoors now and yes I very much miss the grandkids now 4 and 2 . UK will be hard to visit for some time. Mid June we may get permission to cross into other provinces again. Hopefully it will help with a bit of tourism as it is very hard hit globally. We met years back and love to read your works when eyes are not too blurred. Dee Ready mentioned she can no longer do this as her eyes are too weak. I am well in body and mind but so visually challenged. Still I need to connect. By the way I never get back to what you reply. Maybe could email ? It is easier than searching through the post comments to find your reply. Be sale.

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    1. Heidrun,
      I think travel really will be difficult from now on. That has got to be especially hard on you.
      So sorry your eyes are giving you so much trouble. Yes I can email my replies.
      You stay safe also.

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  22. Haha that was a great story and not one I'd read before.

    I know what you mean about the people that used to comment on my blog and no longer do. Some of them have sadly died, but I do wonder about the others. I hope they are okay and just decided blogging wasn't for them anymore.

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    1. Joey,
      Glad you got a chuckle.
      Yes it is hard when our readers just disappear. I know you and I share a couple of the same readers that have quit posting. I really do hope they just got burned out.

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  23. Unfortunately, as Bob and I lose some hearing, we have many of these moments of misunderstanding. When we're out with the masks, it's becoming increasingly difficult to understand people. I find that even young people ask me to repeat because they rely on seeing a person's face to understand them. Someday, I'm going to count the "whats" Bob says to me!

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  24. Oh my gosh! This is priceless, Patti. I’m so glad you retold it. I gotta go tell Art now. He’ll love it, especially since he was a career guy too.

    I have the problem of forgetting what I’ve written about too.

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  25. Wait, your ribs hurt and you lost a tooth? I have to go backwards and see what happened.

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  26. OK.... I see.
    I sure hope you’re feeling lots better.

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